My apologies for the huge gap in
blog posts between this and my last one, which was in December (yikes!). I
left on Christmas Day for Minnesota and spent two lovely weeks at home with my
family before returning to Chicago at the beginning of January. And for the
last few weeks, I really haven’t had much to blog about. The centers where I
teach English were on winter break like I was—except their breaks ended up
being a bit prolonged due to lack of student attendance. It seems that when it’s
freezing cold, people are less likely to leave their houses.. especially people
whose home countries are much warmer than Chicago, Illinois.
For this reason, most of
my time lately has been spent tutoring elementary school kids. I tutor with two
different programs: one, at Providencia Family Services with Sister Virginia,
one of the sisters from this community, and two, at the Indo American Center
where I usually teach English in the mornings. At Providencia I tutor mostly 5th
and 6th graders (all Hispanic background) that attend the adjacent
Catholic elementary school. At the Indo American Center, I tutor kids between
the ages of 5 and 9 who are mostly of Indian and Ethiopian background.
My first day as a tutor at the Indo
American Center can best be described as utter chaos. I found myself the lone adult
in a roomful of kids all clamoring for my attention.. as well as screaming,
running around, walking on the tables, and spinning around at high speeds in a
swivel chair. As soon as I would lean over to help someone, three or four hands
would be tapping me on the back, needing help with their homework. But as soon as I tried to help the next person, the
first person would be mad that I had abandoned them mid-math problem. And then
a third person would wail that I had promised to read them a book ten whole minutes ago. But by the time I
started in on the story, the room was so loud that nobody could hear me read. I don’t know how classroom teachers do it, I
really don’t.
By the end of the first day, I had
struck a sort of compromise where I was sitting at a table with children on
either side of me and one in front. I would read one page of a book to the
child on the left, then help a child on the right with one page of homework,
all the while holding out all ten fingers for the third child to count on (I
don’t know why, but when the kids are doing their math homework, they like to
count on my fingers more than on their own), and then, of course, periodically
yelling at the trouble makers who were wreaking havoc when left to their own
devices.
Now that I’ve been tutoring a few
months, though, I’ve gotten better at channeling the kids’ energies right off
the bat instead of letting things get out of control and then frantically
trying to reign in the chaos (which is about as easy as putting out a forest
fire). Everyone gets helped with homework on a first-come, first-served basis
(the order of which I write on the blackboard to prevent squabbling). After
finishing their homework, everyone is required to read for 15 minutes. The kids
that are too young to read themselves listen to me read a book out loud. There
is always a lot of fuss and consternation over who gets to pick the book, who
gets to turn the pages, who gets to sit in the middle, etc.
Reading to the kids is actually one
of my favorite parts. Growing up, I had two parents who spent hours upon hours
reading to me from a very young age. They read me everything from Curious
George (really? You want to hear this one again?)
to all seven of the Harry Potter books. I credit my love of reading and later,
writing, to the hours I spent listening to my parents. Many of the kids in this
program have parents who can’t read to them in English, which is why I feel
that one of the most important things I can do for the kids is read with them.
After reading time there is an hour or more left over, which is when the kids usually want to play
restaurant. Restaurant is a very complex and intricate game played the exact
same way every time. The kids divide themselves into different roles: chef,
waiter/waitress, manager, customer, etc. One particularly creative boy once
styled himself as the restaurant inspector and wrote up elaborate (mostly scathing)
reviews in his self-published “newspaper.” I’m usually responsible for drawing
all the different food items on paper, which are then colored by the chefs and
served by the waiters. The most coveted position of all, though, is the menu
writer. The menu writers don’t have a great sense of how much food actually
costs, so many of our luxury items are often priced at over $100,000, which the
“customers” pay for with their platinum mastercards (made out of paper, of
course).
I've noticed the diversity of the kids really
comes out in this game too. An average menu at the “Indo Resty” includes
chicken biryani, samosas and paratha as well as traditional American foods like
pizza and smoothies. The kids always make sure that there will be non-pepperoni
pizza options on the menu (Muslims don’t eat pork) while the Hindu children
insist on chicken burgers alongside hamburgers. A lot of these kids really end
up growing up together, which is so important in a community that is
traditionally split along religious and racial lines. The after-school program cultivates tolerance and openness between kids whose parents might normally not allow them to play with each other because of their race or religion.